Porn v.s. Love

Sex can have nothing to do with love but love certainly can have-should have it is adult love leading to a intimate relationship between the parties involved-sex as a part of it. Sex in the form of stimulation, foreplay, flirting and courting, certainly in the form of visual stimulation, porn specifically, is not love. So why are so many of us concerned about that tug-of-war between love and porn? Why do so many unsatisfied or insecure lovers or spouses instantly accuse their partner’s attraction to porn as a direct correlation to how little love they might be feeling from that partner?

Love

 

As sex does not have to be love, porn has usually nothing to do with how good or bad our love lives are progressing. Still, because porn is so prevalent these days, and so easy downloaded, the first enemy blamed to the intimacy between two people is usually porn or our easy access to it. But as much as porn can be stimulating, lead to a rich fantasy life and be the culprit to lots of late night P.C. masturbation sessions, really porn does not come between a couple’s love life and much as it doesn’t come between their sex life.

Relationships

Couples come between a couple’s love and sex life. Couples either empower one another or degrade each other’s spirit and will to live…or at least a will to live with one another. Porn might be all around us and one partner might have quite the hankering for it, but partners need to ask themselves what else is going on in their lives that their love is deteriorating or why their fucking has lessened. Nobody takes to porn looking for love and those who do take to it as a substitute for sex with their partner want masturbation over real sex for a reason other than the fact that their hand feels so good.

Porn is not the culprit to a lack luster sex life or your love dying on the vine.

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