One popular category of sex videos involves any kind of anal play or anal sex. Anal sex is viewed as being very erotic and enticing, but also very taboo and dirty which is probably at least part of what makes it so appealing and interesting to people. Women are often not receptive to the idea of anal sex. They have sometimes been taught from an early age that anything involving that area of the body is unpleasant, dirty and unacceptable. They’re often discouraged from even discussing anything involving that area, and they’re rarely ever taught that there are a lot of nerve endings in that area that allow us to experience pleasure and sexual stimulation.
Because of this, a lot of guys have trouble introducing anal sex into their romantic relationship. Many women get upset at the idea for a lot of different reasons, but the “nice girls don’t” attitude seems to be the main reason most of the time. A lot of women are afraid that it’s going to hurt, because they’ve heard that other women experience a lot of pain and discomfort when they tried it. Women also get pretty squeamish at the idea that there could be some residual mess as a result of anything that may go on in that area. They can’t see it as a normal biological human function – some women don’t even like to acknowledge that they ever have a bowel movement.
The men who are asking for anal sex are fully aware of the fact that there could be some mess involved, and they’re comfortable with it. Women need to learn to trust that and believe it when a guy says it. Many women may find that they actually enjoy anal sex. There are women who can orgasms from anal sex without any vaginal stimulation. Guys who want to introduce anal into their sex life need to be very patient and understanding and take things very slowly.