Orgy Politely

If someone has never been to a sex party, swingers party or orgy before, it can seem pretty intimidating at first. Most people worry about making a mistake, looking stupid or being embarrassed, and nobody wants that to happen. People also usually worry that everyone else in the group will already know each other and that they’ll stick out like a sore them because they’ll be the only strangers in the room.

There may be some fear that nobody will want to mess around with them because they’re new. These are all understandable concerns and everyone has been new and felt these things at some point in time. Because of that, everyone is probably a lot more understanding than the new person may realize. Orgy and sex party etiquette is pretty straightforward and mostly common sense. Check out party rules and requested attire prior to the party. Contact the hosts with any questions. Try not to hang onto sex toys that others may want to use if the toys are provided by the hosts. Always cover toys with barrier protection to prevent contact with bodily fluids. Don’t take other people’s toys without permission. Don’t bring personal toys that are valuable or can’t be replaced. Always bring condoms and safe sex protection just in case it isn’t supplied at the party. Don’t introduce any kink or fetish activity without clearing it with the hosts prior to the party as some groups aren’t open to anything kinky and the dynamics of the party should always be respected.

Never touch anyone without asking first. Give a clear yes or no answer if approached by someone. Don’t say maybe – it’s better to say no because that can always be changed to yes later, but a maybe may be taken as more of a yes when it may be meant as more of a no. Everyone should clean up after themselves. Be a good guest, use common sense and be polite – that’s the key to getting invited back for more XXX fun.

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