When you are single and looking you have a really great opportunity to explore things and especially your sex fantasies. Get to know yourself and what really turns you on by using some Porn and see where that goes. If you are into threesome action you can find it or if you are into lesbian action you can find that too. Sometimes it can be difficult to determine what really gets you off because you are often attaching some sort of reservation toward the things that really do it for you. This may be because you attach some sort of forbidden atmosphere to that thing.
If you are completely honest and open with yourself you will not only be able to enjoy sex yourself but you will make it naturally more enjoyable for your partner because you can let go. You want to ultimately be very comfortable with yourself and this is a lot easier said than done. You will see that a lot of people are very uncomfortable about sex and even those that seem comfortable with it can often have reservations about some things.
The bottom line is that you need to always continue getting to know yourself and being honest with yourself. Then you can become a better person and thus bring a lot more happiness to yourself as well as your partner. This is how you will really be able to replenish your energies and share a more wonderful experience all the way around. Don’t allow yourself to be limited because you have hold backs. You have boundaries and it is up to you how far past them you go if you decide to go past any at all. It is perfectly okay to have reservations about something if you feel that they are rationally and reasonably placed there. Just be sure that you are completely and totally okay with the way things are and only go past boundaries when you feel you should and not because you are compelled to.