Is Anal Really Bad?

One sex act that is still considered really taboo and dirty by a lot of people is anything to do with anal play or anal sex. There are a lot of women who embrace anal sex and have found that it is highly erotic. Some women can even have orgasms from anal stimulation. However, n matter how far we’ve come in sexual education and freedom, there are still some women who see anal anything as dirty and something that nice girls would never, ever do. Of course, it could be that these women are saying that in public because they think they’re supposed to hate it and think it’s wrong, but secretly they do it and love it, but it seems most likely that they honestly won’t try it and think it’s dirty and awful. Some people do it but think that’s horribly perverted and that there must be something wrong with them that causes them to enjoy such filthy behavior.

What is surprising is that there is a rather significant number of men who don’t enjoy anal sex. They don’t like it, they don’t want it, and they’re not going to do it. Some don’t enjoy it because they’ve never been with a woman who enjoyed it so it seems pointless continue to try it. Others were raised thinking that was kind of a dirty place, and only perverts would even consider it. Some are concerned about fitting into societal norms and the consensus seems to be that this activity is just too dirty.

People’s lives would be so much easier if they could stop being so freaked out about sex and specific sex acts. They need to stop judging people who enjoy things that they don’t enjoy. They need to understand that different doesn’t mean wrong or bad, and most importantly, they need to stop torturing themselves for the things that turn them on or make them horny. We can’t really control our thoughts in that manner, so what could possibly be wrong with a thought about a sex act popping into our head? There is little when it comes to sex that can truly be seen as something so horrible that it defines a person and makes them bad, and anal sex isn’t one of those things.

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One Response to “Is Anal Really Bad?”

  1. Steve Says:

    There is no such thing as the wrong *kind* of sex, nor even the wrong *reason* to have sex. We all have our own tastes, and our reasons are our own –not someone else’s, to approve or disapprove of. The only valid criterion for the “right” kind of sex is this: INFORMED CONSENT.

    As long as everyone knows what they’re getting into, and *wants* it, nothing else matters.

    Lastly… we need to get rid of the word “kinky”. What seems kinky to you might be perfectly natural for me, and vice versa. It’s all just… sex.

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