Fisting; Not Just For Vaginas

Fisting, whether vaginal or anal, is a subject that is still pretty controversial in some circles. While it’s thoroughly accepted and often fully embraced by the kink community, it’s still a topic that makes a lot of vanilla people completely uncomfortable. Many women are horrified at the thought of vaginal fisting. They assume that it will hurt, and they fear that their pussy will get too stretched out and not tighten back up. They seem to forget that our pussies are designed to pass a rather large item in the form of a baby, and it tightens back up after that. If a woman’s pussy can stretch enough to pass a baby that weights sometimes seven pounds or more, it can handle the small fist of an adult being up there briefly. Doing Kegel exercise regularly will strengthen the vaginal muscles of course, but even without Kegels, doing an occasional fisting scene will not ruin a woman’s vaginal muscles.

More and more men are starting to get interested in fisting though, and surprisingly many men are getting interested in trying it themselves by playing around with anal fisting. At most BDSM and fetish conventions, there are classes available in anal fisting, and those classes are usually pretty well attended. Classes on vaginal fisting tend to have significantly more men than women in attendance. Men find it amazing and interesting, but women are still very scared of the entire concept.

When trying to fist someone vaginally, it’s very important to use plenty of lubrication. A lot of patience and lube is the whole key to success. Most people have probably seen that when they’re fingering a woman, they can usually get four fingers in pretty easily. The most difficult part of fisting is to get past the widest part of the hand where the second knuckles are located. It doesn’t have to happen all in one night though. Take it slowly, and plan to go a little further during the next session. When fisting someone anally, a lot more care needs to be taken, because the anal cavity is much different than a pussy and isn’t as used to having things go into it as a pussy is. Anal fisting still requires lots of lube and plenty of patience, but one must be extra careful not to do any damage.

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