Real Life v.s. Porn

When you are in a relationship your sex life doesn’t always have to be like the Sex videos or adult videos that you watch and they wont always be. If you realize the practicalities of the thing and just the general nature of a relationship it will be different.

If you set yourself to being okay with that then you will enjoy things a whole lot more. There will be times when just you get off while at others just your partner will. This is perfectly natural and the way it is supposed to be. You don’t want things to be scripted all the time and feel like you have to follow a certain formula. Let it happen free and easy every time and don’t rush it. Let it happen on its own. No one wants to feel like they are on a schedule with something as intimate and personal as sex. If you and your partner trust each other and care about each others feelings and welfare then it will all work itself out and be as good as you ever imagined.

It can even be better. When you truly and completely let down your guard and forget about everything else around you except your partner then it can typically turn out even better than you imagined it could be. This can be just for a short and quick fuck or it could be for a long and lazy and luxurious afternoon. Sometimes you might combine it all and have session after session of both quick and furious and slow and sensual. It is all about enjoying yourself and your partner. Just don’t put any pressure on yourself and on your partner and it will all turn out great. That is where most problems begin is personal performance. You often hold yourself to foolish standards that shouldn’t apply or be brought up as an issue. All you really need to do is have fun.

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