A Net Mind-Fucking

Weaving fantastically detailed scenarios, pulling forth promises just at the moment of orgasm, relating stories and past sex-capades, all can be done across chat or in email but really, in the end, getting deep into our lover’s mind is not about as much what we say but how we say it. We might be able to chat a good game, indulge in a little one-hand surfing, but we’ll never be able to judge the effectiveness of what we say unless we can, at the very least, hear our lover’s voice when we are mind fucking them.

This is why phone-sex worked so well for so many years and why cam girl take to chatting while showing off their bodies across websites for that purpose. We need as much stimulation as we can muster to make the mind fuck work, whether it’s an imagined detailed fetish scene or our lover merely prompting us to masturbate. From our pro doms making suggestions, to a date just flirting, a honest-to-goodness mind fucking works best when both partners are as close as possible. The mind takes us where we allow it to take us, but the journey is so much better if our co-pilot is as close in the cockpit as possible.

The net allows for so much interaction but it can only be the basis for firing our lover’s fantasies and fears as on-line dating can only be a portal for two people to meet. We tend to forget with all the access allowed us from the net that not every single aspect of our life works best on-line. We tend to forget even that there are certain truths that are only ever truthful in real life.

Try as much as we are these days to ignore it, person-to-person interaction is really what serves or intimacy best. We need to see the effect our words have on our partner if all we are using on them is our words. Texting, emails, even little notes left under the windshield wiper of our significant other’s car can build anticipation, plant a salacious suggestion and arouse both partners, but in the end in order to pull-off those very best seductions, the one’s that touch our lovers deep, long and engage their minds as well as their body parts, we really need to be face-to-face and body-to-body.

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